Love Triangle

The Love Triangle in this post isn’t about the triangle relationship between the boys and girls. What I meant the this Love Triangle are three elements that bonded strongly to each other and makes up “Love” ; Understanding, Respect and Accept.

It is a very simple concept,

When we want to love a person, we need to understand that person. Understand about who that person is, what is he or she doing, what does that person think and so on. We need to deepen ourselves regarding what we know from the surface. For example, a person’s personality and the reasons behind their action. Also, we cannot map a person using another person’s personality for every people are different.

As I said just now, every people are different and what they know may not be what we know. Sometimes, a person may think differently from us, but we need to respect them for they have their right to do so.

Accept that person’s past, present and future. Accepting is a way for us to show that person our understanding and respect if we truly love that person.

Without understanding, we won’t respect and accept. Without respect, we won’t be able to understand and accept. Unable accept, then we won’t understand and respect. That is why I said that these three elements that makes up love are bonded strongly to each other.

If we truly loves a person, we need to understand a person, then we’ll be able to respect that person for who he or she is, and what he or she does and accept for what that person was, is and will be.